Sunday, 17 November 2013

Talk is Cheap

Advice is something given by lessons won and lost
Usually by people who have experienced life and death at a high cost

Measure a man by not what he has or where he calls home
But by the company he has and keeps in touch by contacting them by phone

Communication to me has cheapened and dulled
Texting, emailing and twittering are all methods that should be culled

If you want to know how someone is and you truly care
Then pick up the phone if you dare

Call them speak to them no matters the price
Or do what others do and text and be like mice

Become small and insignificant in the lives of your friends
And awake one day to discover that it's too late to make amends

Whatever happened to taking the time to write a letter or note
I bet your grandparents would often tell of their stories being transported by boat

This is the new 21st century the great communication age
With time we do our talking in a way that sends our grandparents with rage

I was taught the old ways to love protect and to think
These days if someone makes an error in life they make amends by buying everything but the kitchen sink

What women want v Online Dating

There was a movie with Mel Gibson a few years ago whereby a guy gets the power to read women's minds and thereby using this power was able to ascertain what women want and therefore become a really powerful tool in the art of business and seduction.

If only it was that easy.

But if I may conclude - what women want is to not meet their one true love online but face to face in the street, not in a bar, nightclub or club true love is never found there but in a scenario, at a coffee shop, a museum or a park. 

What on earth has happened to all the men in this world that they are reduced to chatting up women online? 

Where have all the real men gone? Why have they all suddenly become too afraid to just approach a woman in public and strike up a conversation? Surely that would be much easier quicker and less painless than creating an online dating profile, messaging a woman, spending weeks talking to her, swapping numbers and then asking her out to find there is no spark.

How disheartening.

Now I know in my last few blogs I slammed online dating but I recently experimented on it and concluded after three weeks to disable my profile.

What a waste of time. A site I looked at whilst I researched this topic brazenly stated the below:

Online dating is free, it is easy to use, and it is filled with girls who lack the funds, the seriousness, or the intelligence to realise that every other dating site offers them better prospects for a guy who wants a long-term relationship. In other words, it’s perfect. The girls are pre-selected for some combination of stupidity, desperation and sluttiness. Not a great place to find a wife but a prime hunting ground for the man looking to play some catch and release.'

Case closed.

If you are woman reading this you don't need the site to find the person you are looking for and guys for the love of Pete throw caution to the wind and date without the assistance of a dating site.


Leave our security services alone

This morning after waking up I popped to the bathroom, switched on the light, brushed my teeth and got dressed ready to head out. The lights didn't fail to come on and the water ran freely.

The streets were quiet, people were walking their dogs, parents and their children were heading out to the park, another chap was washing his car, a few people jogged past me it was in essence a typical winter morning. 

I popped into Starbucks as I have always done these past four years and ordered my Peppermint Hot Chocolate and settled down to read the papers that were consumed with nothing but violence and uprisings, murders and those seeking a

democracy being snatched from their beds in the middle of the night never to be seen again. Journalists were going missing too.



So who ensures our way of life, who has no doubt saved us a dozen times over without reward or thanks, who should be left alone and not pursued because the people or albeit be it a political agenda dictates the level of questions directed at them?

Leave our security services alone - they are in my mind and without doubt the best security services on the planet and I for one was personally angered and dissolutioned as to how the top three from MI6, MI5 and GCHQ were summoned to a hearing like naughty school children. 


Who are we to judge?

The media storm that followed that CIA chap who ran off with secrets, or the Wikipedia leaks served no good purpose. I personally didn't care. Anyone who reveals secrets and posts them online in my opinion deserves everything they get. The people that do this are terrorists and threaten our way of life as this CIA chap must have signed a secrets act of some kind and when he decided to break it he knew what he was doing and what did he reveal? That our phones and emails were being monitored by the security services? Was this such a shock? Facebook a site which encourages you to tell the whole world or your network of friends your thoughts, desires and wishes, to tell the world where you are going to be and what time you are going to be there and if you were a security force why spend money on tracking someone down when you can just look on their social media site to see where a person of interest will be, what their likes are, where they are from, what books they like to read - I'm sorry guys if we are stupid enough to post our most private and intimates desires online then who are we to moan and complain when that data is used by the intelligence services to ascertain your level of threat?



The irony of course in all of this is that the free press in this country were allowed at will to stir up empathy within the public domain which they wouldn't be allowed to do in another country for fear of reprisal from their government or army.

Our security services shouldn't have to answer to anyone - and for anyone who says that's a dangerous thing to say then I would ask what good will come from them being lambasted in a public arena, to reveal their actions, tactics and skills in a public domain - no one should need to know it's not our concern. Who cares what they do as long as they protect our way of life. 

If I could I would send them a box of chocolates from one grateful citizen to an organisation that ensures that I get to live my life without fear or reprisal I would.

The clue is in the name of their organisation. 

Security Intelligence.

When it goes right, we love them, when it goes wrong we hate them and question them, their methods and ask them to attend a meeting for the public good, but I doubt any Tom, Dick or Harry could just waltz into take a position there.

No doubt the brightest and best minds are protecting us and I hear the pay isn't exactly thrilling so why do they do it?

I would like to think they do it for the love of their country and their is no higher reason.

So leave them alone. 

Please.